An Evangelical View of Shepherding Leadership

Ethical leadership – the possibility of difference – Marcus Green

In his interview this week on Stephen Colbert’s Late Show, James Comey describes his motivation for writing ‘A Higher Loyalty’, a book which (in part) attacks Donald Trump, as providing a vision for what ethical leadership might look like.

It’s a fascinating interview, and if you have half an hour – go back and click on that link.

James Comey describes an ethical leader as one who has exterior points of reference – such as a spiritual context – and he finds that Trump sees nothing beyond himself.

I’ve not read the book, I’ve only seen the interviews, but I’m left with many questions.

A few months ago, another gay cleric asked me (of the Church of England’s latest version of its endless sexuality debates) – “Why should I care? In the end, it’s always a bunch of straight people deciding together what I’m worth.”

Ethical leadership isn’t just about external frames of reference for a Christian. It’s about understanding you are leading God’s people. God’s people are real people. And everything you do impacts their lives. So you weigh your every decision carefully. Biblically. Compassionately. Knowing that as a leader you answer not to yourself, or even (ultimately) to those people, but to God. The Christian leader follows Jesus: it is costly business, and not comfortable, and it’s about doing what’s best for those in our care not for ourselves.

Jesus says:

I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. The hired hand is not the shepherd and does not own the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. The man runs away because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep.I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me— just as the Father knows me and I know the Father—and I lay down my life for the sheep. I have other sheep that are not of this sheep pen. I must bring them also. They too will listen to my voice, and there shall be one flock and one shepherd. The reason my Father loves me is that I lay down my life—only to take it up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down and authority to take it up again. This command I received from my Father.

Well of course we’re not Jesus. But if our lives look like our model is the hired hand, we’re not ethical leaders.

In the Church’s sexuality debates, there are sometimes sheep in wolves’ clothing, fellow pilgrims who dress up as soldiers. There are too-frequent fights and splits, and the threat of fights and splits, and it can feel for some of us like our shepherds have a habit of abandoning parts of their flock. (“It’s just a bunch of straight people deciding what I’m worth.”)

But this paragraph throws another question up for me: for most of us actually don’t have to practice being ethical leaders. Some of us do. Most of us, however, do have to learn to be ethical followers.

I had a situation in a parish once where one person wanted us to do a particular thing, and I was rather swept up with it. It was objectively a good thing. I hadn’t reckoned on the reactions of others, though… I had quite forgotten that another key leader was in dispute with the first person, and when that leader got very upset with me, I was at first totally confused. Then I remembered. Oh yes. And I just wanted a bit of honesty. I’d have probably walked everything back if everyone had been honest. But that honesty (“yes, there’s an element of personal difficulty between us here”) never came.

So a difficult situation got stuck.

Sometimes I look at our debates around sexuality in the Church and I, as a gay man, as an evangelical, as someone who has lived through this in the Church all his life, I simply fail to understand around 90% of what is happening. I see posts from friends on FaceBook and I simply don’t understand why they would post such a thing – why such a thing would matter to them.

I guess I do sit there sometimes wondering if there is something personal going on, something I know nothing about… Sometimes people who seem to have no dog in this fight do get very excited.

What does it mean to be ethical followers? I think it means that we don’t say things we know will hurt others; we don’t judge; we don’t go out of our way to make others less. Above all, we work and live and speak honestly. We certainly don’t do the equivalent of imposing food laws and sabbaths on someone God has accepted –

For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit, because anyone who serves Christ in this way is pleasing to God and receives human approval.

Ethical leaders? Be good shepherds. Don’t be scared of looking after all your sheep; even the ones that don’t appear to be “of this sheep pen”.
Ethical followers? Don’t obsess over others’ ‘specks’… Do major on love, joy, peace, patience, kindness…

Cos I’ll tell you what I’m worth, me, a gay middle-aged man.
I’m worth dying for on a cross.
And so are you. It turns out.

Thanks to ‘Thinking Anglicans’ for this article by Marcus Green, a self-confessed gay Evangelical priest in the Church of England, who writes about the possibility of different views on the issue of human sexuality, and the need to include the special needs of every member of the Flock of God in the Church.
I was moved by his earnestness, which reflects my own view of how God is concerned for each one of us – recognising our human frailty and loving us with an everlasting love that cannot be quenched. What we need to realise is that we have all fallen short of the perfection that God has in mind for us – a perfection that only God can give, through the grace of Our Lord’s offering of his life on the Cross.
Today’s Gospel Reading – of Jesus, the Good Shepherd – reminded me of our need for humility in our approach towards the throne of grace and mercy. Not criticising the faults of others but earnestly looking towards the author of our faith for mercy and redemption for all who believe and trust in God’s wonderful kindness, mercy and forgiveness.
Another saying about the ministry that I remember is this: “God only has Sinners to preach the Gospel”
Father Ron Smith, Christchurch, New Zealand
 

About kiwianglo

Retired Anglican priest, living in Christchurch, New Zealand. Ardent supporter of LGBT Community, and blogger on 'Thinking Anglicans UK' site. Theology: liberal, Anglo-Catholic & traditional. regarding each person as a unique expression of Christ, and therefore lovable.
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