Church Of England Refuses To Budge On Gay Marriage
After years of debate and division the CofE’s bishops have announced there “are no proposals” to change laws that prevent gay people from getting married in church and prevent clergy from entering into same-sex marriages.
The Church hierarchy has completed more than two years of private talks in a desperate attempt to heal deep rifts over its prohibition on gay marriage.
The bishops’ recommendations will cause fury from the pro-LGBT wing of the Church which wants an official “blessing” for gay relationships, even if a full endorsement of gay marriage is not possible.
But the bishops rule out a blessing, which would signify approval. The Bishop of Norwich, Rt Rev Graham James, said this was not on the agenda at the moment.
They have however promised a new teaching document on marriage and relationships that would explore what accomodation could be given to gay couples.
The new teaching document will “affirm the place of lesbian and gay people in the life of the Church”, a report suggested. But it will offer no concrete changes to teaching.
Current rules over whether clergy can offer prayers or a service to formally welcome gay couples are unclear, the bishops admitted.
They said they will publish guidance for “appropriate pastoral provision for same sex couples”. Details of what this means is not available and the Bishop of Norwich, Rt Rev Graham James, said the bishops would “explore more fully” what the Church will offer gay couples.
The report makes clear the new guidance will “set careful boundaries” and will specify what may and may not take place.
He admitted the document would be “challenging or difficult reading” for gay Christians in the Church.
“No change in doctrine is doctrine is proposed but it is pastoral practice – how we treat people – which matter most,” he said.
The bishops also said they would look at changing how gay clergy are questioned over whether they are sexually active. Under present rules LGBT ordinands must vow to remain celibate, even if in a long term relationship, but heterosexual couples do not face the same questioning.
Bishop James admitted the current process was “not working well”. The report said any questioning about sexual conduct should apply equally to homosexual and heterosexual people. It said the current focus on sexuality led to a “pastorally unhelpful” tickbox attitude.
“….But the bishops rule out a blessing, which would signify approval. The Bishop of Norwich, Rt Rev Graham James, said this was not on the agenda at the moment. They have however promised a new teaching document on marriage and relationships that would explore what accommodation could be given to gay couples.” – Bishops’ Report –
This sounds very much like a ‘Claytons’ accommodation; which is no accommodation at all for Anglican Same-Sex couples looking for the approval of the Church on their legal marital status. Not only that but the dogged insistence that sexual activity is only spiritually ‘valid’ within the bonds of heterosexual marriage, while the Church actually recognises Civil Marriages as (spiritually) valid – even without the benefit of a Church blessing. This seems to me to be a double-tongued response, if not outright hypocrisy. If both heterosexual and same-sex marriages are equally legal in the eyes of the law; why cannot the Church just recognise both marriages as equally valid in the eyes of God?
This is a sad reflection on the ‘two year’s of consideration by the Bishops, which seems to have yielded nothing of any value, and a complete waste of time and resources.
Here is a worthwhile view of what is involved in human sexual responses and their relevance to the relationship between eros and agape in the Christian context:
Father, Ron Smith, Christchurch, New Zealand