Jeffrey John believes that the church has failed gay people


The Anglican church is on a path to acceptance of gay marriage. What a shame such disunity has to be caused along the way


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‘Most recently, the bishops have set themselves against proposals to extend civil marriage to include same-sex couples’. Photo: Jupiterimages/Getty/Comstock

Since 2005, same-sex couples in Britain have been able to contract a civil covenant which gives them the same legal protection and framework as heterosexual marriage. It is an act of legislation that has been almost universally acknowledged as a great good, a real advance for social stability and human happiness.

Far more people entered civil partnerships than the government had anticipated, and in the first years a high proportion of them were older couples who had been together in secrecy or semi-secrecy for decades – some from before the time homosexual acts were decriminalised in 1967. The sense of release and liberation, of joy in a newfound sense of dignity and affirmation, was extraordinary. For gay Christians it was a cause of profound thanksgiving to God.

The official church – and here my concern is mainly with the Church of England – is one of the few public domains where this development has been only grudgingly accepted, and in some quarters vehemently opposed. In recent years, while society has moved towards acceptance, the church has arguably moved in the opposite direction.

When the archbishop of Canterbury George Carey was succeeded byRowan Williams in 2002, most expected a change of approach, not least since Williams himself had endorsed an ethical framework for gay relationships and personally campaigned against the culture of lying about homosexuality that obtains in the church.

Tragically, he changed his public position as soon as he reached the throne of St Augustine. Since then the church’s line on homosexuality has continued to harden. The CofE has refused to countenance any form of official liturgical recognition for civil partnerships; has sought special exemptions from human rights and equalities legislation in order to continue discriminating against openly gay clergy or gay employees; has repeatedly restated its condemnation of all sexual relations outside heterosexual marriage; and has formally debarred even celibate gay clergy from becoming bishops.

Most recently, the bishops of the CofE have set themselves against government proposals to extend civil marriage to include same-sex couples. Their opposition is above all a public and political stance which is intended to maintain ecclesiastical unity, particularly within the Anglican communion. About half the world’s Anglicans are African, and the majority of them are in violently homophobic countries whose churches back harsh punishments against homosexuals, right up to the death penalty.

These are the Anglican provinces which the current policy is seeking to appease and keep on board, while the American and Canadian Anglican churches that now openly bless gay unions and consecrate gay bishops are condemned for daring to treat gay people equally.

This policy may be institutionally expedient, but it is morally contemptible. Worst of all, by appeasing their persecutors it betrays the truly heroic gay Christians of Africa who stand up for justice and truth at risk of their lives. For the mission of the CoE the present policy is a disaster.

Superficially there is little difference between civil partnership and marriage, as both rest on a similar covenant promise of permanent and exclusive commitment between two people. Popular instinct agrees: civil partnership is already widely referred to as marriage, and the partnership ceremony as a “wedding”.

However, the official distinction of terms signifies and helps perpetuate a distinction in status: if marriage is the gold standard, civil partnership, though analogous to marriage, will always be seen as something less.

Theologically it is crucial that the relationship rests on the same sacramental understanding of marriage as reflecting God’s covenanted love for us. Gay monogamy needs to be called marriage officially, as it already is instinctively and unofficially by many people, not simply because it must be seen to be equal, but because it must be seen to be equally holy, equally a gift and vocation of God to those who are called to it.

Here is a prediction. When civil gay marriage becomes possible the church will initially continue to refuse to accept it, but will call for the continued availability of civil partnerships so that it can offer gay people a second best while reserving the term marriage for heterosexuals.

In statements opposing gay marriage, the church’s official spokesmen have already begun to praise the benefits of civil partnership, having conveniently forgotten that the civil partnership legislation only passed despite opposition from most bishops in the House of Lords.

Civil partners will no doubt soon be offered a service of “dedication” of the same sort that divorced heterosexuals used to be offered when a full church marriage was denied to them.

Already the demand for such a liturgy is growing among clergy, who are embarrassed by having to withhold the church’s official support from so many of their own flock who are in civil partnerships. It will take a long time for the church to come round to solemnising same-sex marriage. But it will. The question is only how long it will take, and how much more damage we shall have to suffer on the way.

The sadness is that the church will, yet again, only get there reluctantly, following the state, and will finally realise much too late that the impulse which brought this about was truly God’s impulse, even though it had to begin outside the church. As with the equality of women, as with the emancipation of slaves, the thing which at first was supposed to be incompatible with scripture and tradition will finally be seen to be demanded by the heart of the Christian gospel itself. That is how it so often has been; but how bizarre that so few see it in advance.

As Jim Cotter wrote 20 years ago: “There are four stages in the church’s response to any challenge to its tradition. First, it pretends the challenge isn’t there. Secondly it opposes it vehemently. Thirdly, it starts to admit extenuations and exceptions. Finally it says: ‘That’s what we really thought all along’.”


This latest article by St. Albans Dean Jeffrey John  – who was forced to resile from his original acceptance of election to be Bishop of Reading because of pressure on the Archbishop of Canterbury by conservative elements in the Church of England to withdraw the invitation – questions the wisdom of Archbishop Rowan Williams in bowing to the external pressures that have led to the present stand-off between Gays and the Church. 

There can be little doubt that, because of the Archbishop’s decision to back off from his original opinion about the acceptance of Gays as a normal sub-section of human society (vis-s-vis his publication ‘The Body’s Grace’ on the subject), in order to appease those in the Church of England and the Anglican Communion who are virulently anti-Gay; the situation of Gays in the Church has worsened during Rowan’s primacy of Canterbury and primus-inter-pares of the world-wide Anglican Communion.

That he had been handed the ‘poisoned chalice’ on this issue, by his predecessor in the role of ABC, whose negativity towards those Provinces in the Communion that were actively promoting the cause of acceptance of Gays in the ministry and life of their own provinces was enshrined in the notorious policy of Lambeth 1:10 and the Windsor report; cannot be overlooked. However, Jeffrey John places the blame for the sadly deteriorating attitude towards the LGBT community in the Church of England and the Communion at Rowan’s feet.

Arguably, it was the offensive homophobic rhetoric of the likes of the GAFCON Provinces against the more liberal Provinces – like TEC and the Anglican Church of Canada – that hardened the Archbishop of Canterbury’s attitude against the idea of the Blessing of Same-Sex Unions in the Church of England. The attitude of the Church of England towards  Same-sex Civil Partnerships (negative) has doubtless been one of the reasons why the issue of Same-Sex Marriage has arisen. Both of these innovations have support from people  outside of the Church – as a legitimate recognition of the need for  legally-recognised monogamous Same-Sex relationships.

Now that Same-Sex Marriage is on the British Government’s agenda; the Church of England suddenly seems to be able to approve of Same-Sex Civil Partnerships! This does beg the question of the Church’s original antipathy towards such an arrangement!

The reason for this is glaringly obvious. By its grudging approval of Civil Unions for Same-Sex couples, the Church wants to preserve what it sees as the spiritual character of the Sacrament of Marriage! However, that boat may have already sailed. Had the Church been more generously disposed towards Civil Unions for Same-Sex couples, the prospect of entering into a formal marriage contract might not have arisen for Gays in the Church.

Father Ron Smith, Christchurch, New Zealand


About kiwianglo

Retired Anglican priest, living in Christchurch, New Zealand. Ardent supporter of LGBT Community, and blogger on 'Thinking Anglicans UK' site. Theology: liberal, Anglo-Catholic & traditional. regarding each person as a unique expression of Christ, and therefore lovable.
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